Hidden Agendas

I just happen to have a spark of thoughts on how any of us have hidden motives/agendas that we use to justify our actions or situations. I try my best not to be in this situation. I also try to make sure when I propose something, it does not affect others regardless if it would work for me or not. It sucks to be in a situation that you cannot get out of but that is your choice to be in that position and wash your hands clean later on simply because it is not what you hoped, then proposing an agenda that, again, the situation you thought it will now work well with you, not knowing it might negatively affect others... And the cycle continues. 

 Reasoning such as using the power of "According to..." or "based on.." statements, does not exclude the fact that providing these may entail selfish hidden motives to sway other people to agree with you. IF you want something to work well, you have to work with the work first and work your way around it and not the other way around---To let the work go around what pleases you. That doesn't work that way. You adjust to the situation. Once you do, I believe you won't even have a single reason to propose hidden agendas/motives.